What Malcolm Jamal-Warner means to Black boys and men

Hearing the news of Malcolm-Jamal Warner’s passing hit like a ton of bricks. It was totally out of left field—so unexpected and sudden. As a man of a certain age, I recognize that many of my peers are experiencing major life changes. More often than not, those changes involve the loss of a loved one or their own passing. We all know that at some point, we have to go. But whenever one of us does, it always feels too soon.

Malcolm-Jamal Warner’s death hits especially hard because of what he represented to young Black men around the world. We were introduced to him as Theo Huxtable—a clean-cut Black teen who came from a good home and lived a normal life. In the eighties, there were very few, if any, characters who resonated with Black boys in that way. He wasn’t painted by the brush of white society, and he wasn’t some sidekick. Theo was us. He got the pretty girls, had a cool best friend, and sometimes struggled in school. The mere existence of a character like Theo was revolutionary—and Malcolm embodied him in a way that was honorable and aspirational.

Malcolm carried that same dignity throughout his entire career. He consistently showed up on screen as a strong character—not a caricature. His impact was real and will endure for generations.

When one of us passes on, it always feels too sudden. But in my heart, I believe that when that moment comes, it’s God letting us know our assignment is complete—and He’s coming to take us home. I know I speak for millions of brothers when I say: thank you, Malcolm. Job well done.

  • Eddy “Precise” Lamarre

Happy Fathers Day – Love – Life Lessons

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If I am honest with myself I would say that being a father is probably one of the most challenging things to be in the world. Most times Im not sure what Im doing right. I’m kind of learning as I go along, and I always worry if I am imparting some type of life lesson to my children that they can benefit from. Fatherhood is not easy.

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My oldest son called me yesterday he just turned 21 and he said “Whats Up Pops, what you doing tomorrow for fathers day?” I told him I wasn’t sure and that I felt like people really don’t make a big deal out of Fathers day. Then he said “Well if they dont make a big deal about it, Im going to make a big deal about it!” Then we talked some more and ended the phone call as we do most times saying that we love each other.

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It was in that moment that I knew I didn’t have to be perfect. My bank account didn’t have to be bursting the seams. I didn’t always have to have the answers. All I ever need to provide to my children is a sincere and true love. This love is what motivates us to do better.

If we look at Cliff Huxtable (Cosby Show) and James Evans (Good Times) as characters their lives are totally different. One lives in his upper middle class home in Brooklyn. The other lives with his family in poverty in a Chicago housing project. Cliff is a doctor. James is a handy man. These two individuals are from totally different spectrums of life; however the one thing they have in common is the love they have for their children. This love translates into these life lessons that help to shape our children, it becomes our bond.

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So with that I want to say HAPPY FATHERS DAY to all my friends and family out here who are Dads. You dont have to be perfect you just have to be there to share your love.

-Precise

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